Getting revenge with dirty divorce tricks

Unfortunately, divorce proceedings are often a platform for feuding spouses to air all of their grievances and their “dirty laundry”, so to speak. The problem is, using your divorce to get revenge on your spouse will probably end up hurting you too. When things are painful it is often a natural human instinct to lash out and try to protect oneself. But if you ask yourself what you really want, do you see yourself in the middle of a divorce battle, dirty divorce tricks thrown out on both sides, dignity compromised? Or do you see yourself taking the high road and then moving on with your life?